This is not a pro or anti breastfeeding rant. In my books, fed is best, however it needs to be done, so long as you’re not giving your kiddo coffee or beer, I think you’re good. The ramblings that follow are simply my experiences of feeding my first born vs feeding my second, and an overall message to not be put off if you have a bad experience with one child, as it could be completely different for another, as I found out.